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I am a mother of 2 and my partner of 3 years has a little girl the same age as my youngest and i dont feel any connection with her and i see the way she looked at me which obviously is not her fault i blame her bitter mother but i dont feel that i will ever be acepted by her but as i see it life goes on and she either learns to accept us or not. I think anyone who takes on step children and is there no matter what happens deservs a medal as it is one of the hardest things i have had to learn and adjust to

Personally i dont think there is a right time or exact time for the talk i remember (slightly) having the talk with my mum and she was just honest with me and told the truth, my daughter has asked a few questions about certain things and i have done the same just be honest and let her no that its ok to come talk to you about this or anythink on her mind. Good luck xxx

Could it be that your step daughter is trying it on with you? i no mine does and i also no that what what happens at her mothers house when she is at my house its my rules, however regardless to the fact that she is your step daughter, typical 12 year olds are alwys going to try the my friends get this that and the other line, do what you think is best, and stick to it, good luck x

I hear that standing on a chair and getting to the highest point of the wall can make a difference and give you better hearing, i would be interested to hear from you as in what you are listerning to lol were i live you dont need a glass as they are that loud you just need to make a brew snd sit back on the sofa lol (not all the time tho) x

I have pretty much the same trouble but i now have a clear out about a month before an occasion (birthday,xmas). I send the children up to my mums for an hour and get it all done and i have now got big plastic boxes with lids that i stack on top of each other where the toys are kept inside and tidy and also as the children can not lift the boxes i ensure that the toy they have out go away before they get anymore out, good luck xx