well, i think that what you did is not selfish and iam sure he wouldnot blame you for doing so but i think he would blame himself a little, only if he is not giving his daugter the great attention that he thinks she should be given. you really dont have alot to do about it . finally... not putting his daugter picture in the frame is not selfish but putting it another time would be very kind and effective
this is only if you are ready to take the responsibility of putting her pictures with yours , if you are not i prefer not putting it .think about my words carefully.