It wouldn't be something I would do, but I can see others may be interested - particularly if they're younger than I am lol.
If it's advice for friends though, wouldn't you rather just talk to them privately?

personally i wouldn't - no matter how badly a date went or how messily a relationship ended, i'd have too much respect for the ex and how much they could write about me if they ever found out i did something as crass as wrote up every detail of it online.

tis something to be shared between friends over a coke in your room. a generalised - VERY generalised version (such as what not to say if she asks "does my butt look big in this?") - would be a lot better and more educational, less gossip-based and less harmful to those who may identify themselves even through the use of aliases and avatars.

tread lightly, as i've recommended before. i can see why you're doing this, but it may come at a high cost to others.

I find this whole idea insulting and degrading to the other people who may be written about.

I feel no one has the right to rate another, be it anon or not.

I also see no educational benifit to this site as no to dating experiances are the same. It sounds like a site you can brag about your conquests, and others can get titalated by reading your experiance.

I think you deserve to be single if you think it is OK to tell strangers about your private relationships and would not want anything to do with any one involved in such a site. What ever happened to respect for others and their fealings?

I agree with Sheps 101 - and I certainly wouldn't want another date with him/her - he/she was rubbish ;)

Only joking - never met him in my life
And I do agree - it is private info and should remain so - such a site is just an excuse for salacious gossip and could well be libellous

No way Hos`e along with the others what they put, altho so say firewalls are meant to be hack free, there are always means to get around them. Imagine the Horror the hurt the emotions, if that person/person found themselves written about bandied about on the internet, also it could be used as Blackmail to.!! I keep a diary, have done for years and years, its stood me in good stead as i put everything and anything in, even the time i got off to sleep. with Sheps 100% on this.

I understand the premise, but it won't catch on. That's because people need to make their own mistakes and correct decisions in life in order to learn something and get something out of life. You can't read someone's summation of a date they had and decide "well that sounds bad, I won't go out with a person like that" because you are going to find different people attractive for diffrent reasons. It's a good thing really, otherwise most people would be single.

I agree with Bondgirl, people need to learn from their own experiences in the dating game, good or bad. But then whilst the idea is full of good intent, I think it will rapidly sink to revenge tactics on ex-lovers.

Good way to get feedback on an idea before spending any money on a website tho!

Right im the odd one out here i guess.....Im not an over private person and any and i mean any question asked would get an honest response i wouldnt lie i dont see the point and it would take an awful lot to offend me so yes i would do keep an online jounal but..im getting wed so i dont need to but if i was single then yes im not using the persons name etc so they would never no it was on here let alone no it was about them at any point.
And i wouldnt mind having it done to me either as my name wouldnt appear it really wouldnt bother me.


(Cowering in the corner now expecting some form of back lash)!!!

Although dating is an educational experience, it's also a private one. I wouldn't share my intimate moments with more than one person, especially if it involved lying about who I am! It seems like a silly idea, but then again so does watching star trek or learning "klingon"; there will always be people who take to it though!